Relationships require work no matter the relationship.

Interpersonal relationships are unavoidable. It seems so common that when people think of relationships they think of romantic ones, but we all know that not all relationships are romantic.  Relationships can also be platonic (friend status), professional (like with a therapist, doctor), co-worker,  and an acquaintance (local barista).  Regardless of the label we place on a relationship, all relationships require work.  They require communication, boundary setting, respect, mutual enjoyment, etc.  When we put in the work, like kneading dough, often times we realize the relationship needs more work.  Relationships are ongoing work.  The hope would be if we put in the work the result is the relationship we hope to acquire.  However, relationships require work from both parties.  If you are willing to do the work and your romantic partner isn't, is this a relationship you want?  Is it worth it?  If you do the work and your friend doesn't, is this a friendship you want?  It takes two.  Sometimes we have to reevaluate what it is we value (want) in a relationship such as respect, shared interests.  In the end, this all requires work, but that doesn't mean the work is impossible.  Sometimes the work is hard and sometimes it's easy.  The hope is in the end you get the desired product you have worked so hard to achieve!